Wednesday, October 29, 2014

.....and , so, it happens in life......

Finally done with Common Internal Assessment Test - I for semester - 01 in MBA.

Feeling highly stressed!

A small voice inside me still says "No Hema, this is not even the beginning, and not even the end of beginning; Miles to go before you sleep, and Miles to go before you sleep."

For the first time ever since I started studying under Anna University Affiliated Institutions syllabus, this is the very first semester that i am facing papers that are all theory and not even a single practical paper.

People will think I am kidding if I say that MBA's theoretical papers are very simple, as my parents always say, but as I have experienced, simple things are the most difficult to mug-up and reproduce, but very easy to understand and answer.

I am determined that what may come, I will complete my Post - Graduation because , as of now an MBA is all I would love to have after B.E., next to my name.

There are future academic plans in my mind after MBA, but I do not even wanna think about all those and waste the precious and valuable "this moment" in life.

Thank God for all the blessings that I am enjoying in life!!!

Jai Sri Ram!!!

Thursday, October 23, 2014

My passion changed with paradigm shift

What a morning! The sky is not full of stars but it is full of heavy water-laden clouds, ready to pour down as rain anytime.
Happy to say that i am starting such a cold October morning with a hot cup of coffee in my hand and reading my favourite subject in 1st semester MBA, Accounting for Management.
Oh! What a feeling? Is it happiness (or) satisfaction (or) the peace of mind that i feel?
Only God knows!

MY PASSIONS DURING DIFFERENT AGES IN MY LIFE SO FAR

(0 - 5) Gardening and hence comes the word "Botany"
(5 - 10) I was in love with my elder sister
(10 - 15) History and Geography
(15 - 20) Astrology , Archeology & Aeronautics
(20 - 25) MBA , photography & writing blogs

So, as i got grown - up and matured, there was paradigm shift in my mind which was influenced by many other external factors, some of which are too personal to share in my blog.
Only my family knows everything about these external factors.

(0 - 5) GARDENING AND HENCE COMES THE WORD "BOTANY"

When i was a child doing kindergarten, i never used to study and i always spent time at home not watching Cartoon Networks either. But i had a rather strange habit. We did not have a very big garden at all. But we had something small enough to be called as garden. We lived in a rented house, and so were stolen the opportunity to expand this small garden, because if we do, we cannot live there anymore. I still remember how bad i was at geography those days, that i used to visit garden only to dig out the soil as deep as possible, so that, if i had dug out deep enough, i was under the notion that i can see stars, moon and the night sky and the entire cosmos under the soil. See how bad i was @ geography in those days. Blimey! This natural interest in digging out the soil, slowly drifted towards plants and i started studying all the parts of the plants without even knowing their names. I collected seeds (mostly neem seeds) and i sow them into the soil, water it regularly and man, i know that neem was a Dicotyledon even before my Botany mam has taught me in Class 7.Skoal!

(5 -10)I WAS IN LOVE WITH MY ELDER SISTER

This was the most difficult period of my life, because my elder sister, who was like another mother for me, left home to pursue her career in medicine. I loved her a lot and i still love her. But since I was a kid, that made things simple for me. I did not go through what was called depression and all those stuffs. My parents were there for me, and my studies kept me occupied. Once in a couple of weeks, she used to visit home, and I still remember those days when she was doing I - yr Medicine, I took out her Anatomy record notebook and scribbled in all the pages with my pencil. Poor girl, she has submitted it without even checking it, and got nice scolding from her Anatomy Professor. But she proved she was studious. She got a bronze medal in her first year in Physiology. My father was very proud and i was a bit jealous. :/

(10 - 15) HISTORY AND GEOGRAPHY

O my favourite Geography! How can i forget those days, that we lived together as a book and a student? lol. :D . I was really mad at Geography, because i think i have already told you how my notion of the earth was when i was at kindergarten. The earth was no more flat, after i read geography. The sky and the stars that I was searching for was no more under the soil, but it was in the oposite direction, straight above my head, after reading geography. Geography made me look up at the sky and wonder at the stars and moon and not searching for them in the places where earthworms lived. There was a paradigm - shift in my mind as I read geography more and more. I loved the change and I enjoyed every bit of it. When I was a kid, (still living in that rented house with my family), one nice day , my father, gathered entire family and all our attendants with our immediate neighbour's family on the terrace and he held a binocular and we all were waiting for something to happen in the sky patiently. It was the day of Halley's Comet which happens once in 75 years. I saw the comet through the binoculars and so was everyone. That was a great thing in my life, as it had sown the seeds for interest in Astronomy in the later days.

(15 - 20) ASTROLOGY , AERONAUTICS AND ARCHEOLOGY

As I have said before, Halley's Comet has sown the seeds in my mind for Astrology. The thing with me is that, if I get attracted towards something, I will never leave it , until I am satisfied with it after gaining sufficient knowledge about it. And so was the case here. Archeology --> It all started with me reading an article about the Egyptian mummies in Siruvarmalar and watching the Blockbuster Hollywood Hit "The Mummy". I started my research. I read more and more, Howard Carter -  Tutankamun's curse , Tutankamun's tomb , paraohs , Cleopatra , Nefertiti and Akanethan , The Great Pyramids of Giza , The Cradle of Egyptian Civilization the Nile and more and more and more. Recently, my sisy while coming from Scotland, had brought a miniature statue of Tutankamun's coffin. When I told her that having something negative like this inside the house, is not a good omen, she replied, "Donot be so superstitious papa! Let me keep it inside Pooja room, so that whatever bad vibrations that it creates will be nullified by God". So, I let it go.



Aeronautics--> This is something which I got attracted to purely by myself. There were days in my life when all I wanted was to become an aeronautical engineer or a pilot. I was deeply obsessed with flights and aeroplanes. I still think they are cool. The first chapter in my std XI English book was about Kalpana Chawla which added fuel to the fire inside me.Then, there was a paradigm shift once more.

(20 - 25) MBA , PHOTOGRAPHY & BLOG WRITING

Omg!!! The coffee has become cold and I have lots in Accounting to catch up with. See you all later. Bye!

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

THE "MAGIC" IS TAKING ITS TOLL ON ME?! :)

Happy! Happy! Happy!
Be Happy and make others also Happy!
Read Rhonda Byrne's "The Secret" , "The Magic" and "The Power" , while working with TCS.
The most happening , life - changing books they are.
OMG!!! Man I can't believe how much these books have changed my life, when practiced strictly.
IT WORKS!!!

But I had one thing pricking my mind always, all these many years. It is that i do not possess a Gratitude Stone.
I had a chance to visit Singapore, even there i cannot find one as described in the book within my budget.
I felt sad and completely lost.

My sister bought this silver-plated chain for me from London, which has a single large oval shaped white stone (which looks more or less like a pearl) pendant in it. I was using it for the past 7 years.

Yesterday, all of a sudden, when i was arranging my wardrobe, i came across this chain and my longing for the Gratitude Stone striked my mind like a flash.

"I GOT IT!" I screamed in my mind, and took it out and touched it to feel the Blessings from the Almighty.
Hah! It was with me all these years, only thing is that i could not recognize it. I was having this chain even before i started reading the book.

Good, that my version of Gratitude Stone came in the form of a chain, so that i can wear it and whenever i look at myself in the mirror, it makes me recollect all those "magical" stuffs that i had read in that book.
Thus it makes my life even more magical and it feels great to possess a Gratitude Stone!

Thanks God!!!!



Tuesday, October 21, 2014

People Madness!!! :P

People are imperfect!
God has created them like that, and we cannot change them.
Nobody on the earth is perfect.
Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.
We cannot try to change them.

Scientists say that human beings finger prints are unique and two human beings are born with the same pattern of finger - prints. Even identical twins have different finger - prints and tongue - prints.
Similar to finger - prints , tongue - prints are also unique for all.

Recently, while i was chatting with a friend, who felt low and depressed, just to console her, me and one other best friend of mine were telling her jokes to cheer her up. I told her the well known example about the way the five fingers in our hand look like.....

Me: Hey Buddy! Just look at the way God has designed the five fingers in your hands. They are all different.
       They differ in length, thickness and purpose. But have u ever noted that all these different five fingers        always work together in creating a beautiful art or rangoli or a beautiful story while writing. Similarly, the world is made up of different people who work together forgetting their differences to create harmony and peace in the world. That is how the equilibrium (probably that is what physicists call as dark energy / Gibbs free energy in the cosmos) is always maintained in this universe. And you have to accept it, because we have no power to change it.
Other friend : Hey Hema! Your example sounds very childish!
Me : Ok friend, then u give some other example which will convey the same news in a far better way than mine.
Other friend : Give me some time ,  I will think and let you know.
 (FYI, It has been weeks, since i have last heard from her about this topic. Whenever I start talking with her about this, she will make it a point to change the topic immediately.)

I just stopped asking her about this after sometime. Because, she is very good friend of mine that i dont want to loose her for the sake of winning an argument.
I remembered an old adage which says "YOU MAY WIN AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR FRIEND, BUT YOU WILL LOOSE THEIR FRIENDSHIP". I always argue with all my acquaintances of my age, but never with my close buddies.

Life teaches so many people, many different things. I have also learnt so much in life to share in my blog.
Finally, "Men may come. Men may go, but I go on forever"

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